The AIM is to EXCITE, INFORM, INSPIRE

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What is Life?

What is Life?

  • Life is a mystery.
    Love the mystery of being a human, the wonder and sense of possibility that unfolds with your experiences each new day on Mother Earth.
  • Life is a game.
    It’s a fun game as you play, a better you each day, in the team of life ,with your Giant Family around the world, and develop new skills.
  • Life is a gift.
    It’s a surprise and always brings something special.
  • Life is a picnic.
    It’s a picnic on a sunny day, offering lots of variety and choices from which you create your world.
  • Life is a dance
    Using music, life moves with passion, grace, rhythm, and joy.
  • Life is sacred.
    Life is precious, to be loved with your complete being. It’s sacredness is also shown as we respect each other.
  • Life is a dream.
    It’s a dream that your spirit is living in your human form to be released one day.
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LIFE ACTION STEPS

DREAM: Think of something you’d really like to do with your life that would have a positive impact on you and others

DESIGN: Write at least 5 steps you can take to start the ball rolling

DO: Now get on the move to put those 5 steps into doable actions

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You attract who you are

You attract who you are rather than what you want.

If you’re going for a walk, be present in the moment. Whatever you are doing, be present in that moment. Don’t be thinking of multiple other things, be present and good things will come.

When you learn something, you’re able to teach it, it comes from your personal cognition. Cognition brings experiences and you can then make them your own.  When your life changes for the better, you have a desire to help change the life of other people around you as well. Just don’t force it on them, wait till they show some interest in what you’re saying. And then, be sensitive to their continued interest or not.

When we have learned lessons from the past and have experienced their positive effect, we turn them into wisdom.

You feed your body with food and water. You feed your soul wisdom from experience and knowledge that you have gained and consistently used to empower yourself. You then gain new opportunities which take that wisdom further as you create further empowering situations.

Whenever you’re in fight or flight, you’re in survival mode, and when you’re in survival mode, you’re not in a state of creation, you’re basically just hanging on to the cliff edge. That energy is releasing cortisol and adrenaline in your body, and that’s not healthy. No living organism is meant to be in that stage for too long.

Get yourself into the mindset of what is going right in your life and not what is going wrong. Ask yourself, what am I grateful for? Gratitude is magick. It gets you back into clarity. Now you can come back to your current situation, and you’ll know what to do. Negative doubt was dissolved.

But, whenever we’re caught up in fear, everything gets complicated. Come back to love and it’ll all make sense.

If it’s an intense situation and you’re dealing with some sort of trauma, whether it happened recently or in the past, this is a time for you to take some time to heal spiritually.

Let’s look at 3 modalities we can use to heal:

  1. spiritual – meditate; listen to calming music; listen or watch stories of success over mental chaos, sing
  2. physical – get enough sleep to heal; do yoga; other exercise; play sport; dance
  3. emotional – do a little bit of automatic writing; journalling; praying; sing; fall back on affirmations

If you are an empath, you’re often people pleasing and making sure everyone else is okay, but now is the time for you to heal.

Take some time for yourself, don’t feel you have to rush and do things.  Do something you don’t want to, you love to do, not you have to do. You can choose to do what you wish.

Affirm that you trust yourself, summon up that inner light within you. You may feel a lack of confidence but, this lack is nothing more than lack of knowledge or experience.

If you had a confrontation, ask yourself, what made the other person react the way they did. Most misunderstandings are also just lack of knowledge, which produces jumping to conclusions which has caused the majority of many problems.

Put yourself in the receiving mode. Expect this to righten itself, accept it and command it, understand it’s your birthright to be happy. Welcome what appears to be negative energy, don’t resist it. Ofttimes, we resist the energy of love, self-love and love shown to us by others and let our negative ego predominate. You just need to move your thoughts, emotions, and outlook to a new perspective.

Ask your Higher Self for a different course of action. You may be able to focus on what is important to you that you overlooked. Make a conscious effort to get above the difficult situation.

Remember, the Universe is doing stuff for you, not to you. What is the lesson in this situation? Thank goodness, we found the lesson now or else, we’d have to learn it later when things could have got more difficult.

What advice would your Higher Self give you right now when it’s in control and not your humanness?  By you using that perspective, you will have a clear and concise image that leads to brain and heart coherence. Now you’re tapping into the field, and your path will be clear.

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Les Amis, the Friends

LES AMIS
The Friends

It was a beautiful day at the beach. The sun shone, the water was tepid, not hot nor cold, just right. Chestnut and Blackie were romping in the shallows where it was easy to run. No waves impeded the two friends from having fun. Waves always meant that you’d get a mouth full of water as you splashed.

The two friends were almost parallel, with Chestnut gripping a stick.

Blackie: ‘Hey, come on, Chestnut, be a good sport and share. It’s a long stick, we can each hold on to it.’

‘As soon as I get a grip on it, I’ll yank it off him,’ he thought.

Chestnut made no sign of acknowledgment and kept running just ahead of Blackie with the twig in his mouth protruding on the opposite side of the other dog.

Blackie: ‘Did you hear what I said?’ He was getting frustrated. It was becoming a matter of pride. ‘I’ve got to get that stick off him. It’ll make me look good,’ he alleged.

Chestnut with his wolf-like eyes remained unresponsive and just glanced unperturbed in front of him. The stick was still firmly intact in his mouth.

Suddenly, Chestnut increased his gait. Blackie as a result was now lagging behind him and his impatience got the better of him.

He took a leap to get parallel with his competitor who continued looking straight ahead. Now and then, Chestnut gave his playmate a sidelong glimpse but that was it, he didn’t feel threatened. However, he made sure the prize was firmly away from his pal.

‘What does he think he’s playing at?’ Blackie thought, ‘If I can get him to lose concentration even if only for a second, I can grab the branch from him.’

Blackie had a puffed-up opinion of his strategic abilities. In reality, he seemed to always come up short.

They both leaped along. Chestnut nonchalantly, but Blackie with an air of a desperado. He was formulating a plan.

Chestnut however, continued to merrily prance through the water, innocent of what could be impending doom for his control of the trophy. But then, that was Chestnut, not a conniving bone in his body. Life was a game to him, a fun time, he was neither competitive nor was he a pushover, however. Blackie on the other hand saw everything as a test of strength, of one-upmanship, it was all about winning.

‘Hey, you two, don’t go so far,’ called their owner, ‘Jessie can’t run so fast.’ Jessie was three-and-a-half years old and squealed with delight as she watched her darlings romping through the shallow surf near the shoreline. She ran as fast as she could but kept falling in the water as mini potholes developed with the wavelets. Her mother would get soaked helping her up and laughed with her.

‘Okay, this is war,’ thought Blackie. He went to grab Chestnut’s leg as he ran but he wasn’t prepared that his friend would change direction and alter the playing field.

Instead of the leg, Blackie swallowed a mouth-full of salty, frothy water, and coughed and spluttered in distress. Without a second glance, Chestnut ran back to his owners and gave the stick to Jessie’s outstretched hand.

‘Oh, that is so sweet of you,’ the mother said as she patted the dog’s head and became even more wet from the water his tail splashed up at her.

It was then they noticed Blackie still coughing.

Copying what her mother always says, Jessie called as she approached her other dog, ‘Oh, for heaven’s sake, Blackie, do you always have to be so dramatic and get yourself into trouble? Can’t you be like Chestnut and just play?’ she said with her hands on her hips.

Chestnut snuggled up to his buddy and said with a grin, ‘Yes, Blackie, can’t you be more like me and not be the Smartass you always are?’ and with that he jumped on him and they romped in the surf till both were exhausted and sputtering from the water they had swallowed.

Jessie and her mother laughed with delight at the tomfoolery.

‘Okay, you two, come on,’ called the mother, ‘time for lunch.’

They all headed for a grassy patch under some trees, and each had their favourite fare, meaty bones for the dogs and sandwiches for the humans.

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QUESTIONS FOR YOU

  1. What do you think of Chestnut’s strategy to keep the stick?
  2. What do you think about Blackie’s attitude ?
  3. What do you think is the moral of the story?
  4. Describe the relationship the people had with the animals.
  5. What did you like in particular about the story?

 

The Labrador

Julia sat overlooking the city. This new city she had now committed her life to. Thoughts raced through her mind faster than the blood pumping through her body after the long jog ascending the steep hill. ‘This city is unsullied by my past mistakes, by past memories, by past hurts,’ she mused, ‘Let’s see how long I can keep it that way. It’s all up to me, no one else’s responsibility.’

Her only regret was that she had to leave her mother. They had a particularly strong bond. Both had been through similar, difficult personal situations. Her mother was the only one who never judged her, who always spoke kindly and told her that she had whatever strength she needed within her. ‘Always believe in yourself. Never listen to people who criticise you for the sake of hurting you; they don’t care about you.’

It was her mother’s words incessantly going through her head that were instrumental in her having the strength to physically leave her past behind even though, it wasn’t easy. Emotional ties are the hardest to sever, even if they betrayed you.

‘Always remember, my darling girl,’ her mother always added, ‘You must take opportunities life gives you, no matter how out of left field they appear. They can come in the strangest way.’

Remembering those words made Julia smile. ‘I’m always her “darling girl”.  I know she’s sad that I’ve left but, she knows, I had to go. She understands. She’s the only person I can rely on to always love me, to always listen to me, and who will always support me. I love her so much.’

As she looked out at the sunrise that awakened the city scape, and the sun that highlighted the river which glistened as a result of its power, she became aware of the dreamy silence surrounding her. She realised how at peace she felt and basked in that.

Suddenly, she sensed she was not alone. Her muscles tightened, she didn’t move but stayed en garde. It was still early in the morning and she hadn’t passed anyone on her trek up the hill. She waited and listened.

Without warning, she was bowled over by a 50 Kilogram, blond Labrador who started kissing her with his sloppy tongue.

‘Hey, Sam, stop. Sam, come back here, come here!’ a male voice called in vain. The dog’s enthusiasm was unable to be curtailed. He was so joyous.

Julia struggled to get on her feet and caught hold of the spotted lead hanging from the exuberant dog’s neck. It was all she could do to stay standing between the dog jumping and her laughing.

Finally, the dog owner was able to grab the dog’s lead off her and, simultaneously, with the other hand, hold Julia by the arm to stabilise her.

‘I’m so sorry, so sorry,’ he spluttered and puffed as he was out of breath. To the dog, he scolded, ‘Sam, naughty boy. Stop! Stay! Heel!’

At the commands, the dog immediately obeyed and looked lovingly up at his owner as he sat with his body vibrating with excitement and happiness.

The owner collected himself and said, ‘Hello, I’m Tom. I’ve no idea what came over him. He doesn’t usually do that. He’s normally so well-behaved but, as soon as he saw you, he bolted with glee.’

Still laughing and attempting to pat Sam who clearly could still not contain himself, she said, ‘Hi, I’m Julia. That’s okay. I was just surprised. I love dogs and Sam is a cutie.’

‘Aren’t you a frisky fellow this morning,’ she addressed the dog who seemed to be smiling from ear-to-ear, as though he was saying, ‘Aren’t I a clever boy!’

‘Hey, there’s a coffee shop just around the corner on this path. Can I buy you a coffee to make up for my dog knocking you over?’ Tom suggested.

Julia thought for a second and replied, ‘Sure, that would be nice.’

Then her mother’s words came to her, ‘You must take opportunities life brings you. They can come in the strangest way.’

A grin lit up on her face and there was a skip in her step, in time with Sam’s prancing.

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QUESTIONS FOR YOU

  1. Describe Julia’s mood as she sits on the hill.
  2. Describe Julia’s relationship with her mother.
  3. What do you think is the moral of the story?
  4. Describe Sam.
  5. What was your favourite part of the story?

The Piano – Part 2

As I mentioned in Part 1, I had decided to become a professional pianist.

However, my stint at the boarding school and the divorce of my parents, destabilised and confused me.

Although I had a wonderful piano teacher at boarding school (it was the only nun who was nice to me), I was disoriented  about life.

I had many unanswered questions.

a. Why was I sent to boarding school 10 minutes away from where I lived? It was of a religion I had never heard of.  My father was an aetheist, my mother wasn’t practising anything. I only got into that school because of a friend of my parents.

b. Why was Mother Superior (the headmistress) always nasty to me. She used to say that I was a sinner as my parents were both divorced from previous marriages and were now separated to be divorced again.

c. Why did I have to kneel daily in the Chapel at 5.00am whatever the season? Reply was always, because I was a sinner.

Once in the outside world, I decided life was going to be on my terms. I knew that it would upset my mother terribly if I didn’t play the piano, so I STOPPED for a few years.  And so, my standard deteriorated rapidly. Can you imagine the pain in my heart from that decision? I loved the instrument.

I still play today but infrequently as I never achieved the standard I had reached in the early years.

If YOU have a passion for something and had stopped for whatever reason, when you recommence …

Be kind to yourself, be loving to yourself and take it slowly.
You will get back into it.

Video to come……….
Me, now, experimenting with my iPhone playing 2 minutes of “La Paloma”, “The Dove”.

It’s a popular Spanish song that has been produced and reinterpreted in diverse cultures, settings, arrangements, and recordings over the last 140 years. The song was written by the Spanish Basque composer Sebastián Iradier around 1860 after a visit to Cuba.

Let’s talk about You

Let’s talk about YOU

I know, you’ll have FUN with the following. I had a wake up call when I did it.

Write the answers to the following statements in full and keep them available for future reference. The exercise will have a great impact on your life going forward.

It’ll show how you’ve changed over time. We learn best by making something a personal experience.

We spend HOURS and we expend much ENERGY on all sorts of things in a day that don’t really add value to our life.

For example,

  • Gossip, nasty stuff
  • Spread hearsay about people, even if good
  • Are judgmental of ourselves and others
  • Relay news items whose reliability is dubious
  • Repeat news items other than what’s uplifting
  • Complain about a plethora of topics in our life
  • Repeat ourselves unnecessarily

Reply to the above statements as they relate to you.

What did you learn about yourself?

You would also have observed some of the above traits in people you know, wouldn’t you?

These are merely observations and not meant to be judgmental. The observation is between you and you, not to spread. We often see traits in others but not in ourselves and learn from this.

It’s a good idea to revisit this exercise every six months or so as it’s easy to slip back into ingrained societal programming.

Are We One?

Are we One?

Well, I’ll dive straight in. Many people have faith in some higher power, whatever you choose to call IT. IT has lots of names from personifications to energy Vs matter.

You may have had unexplainable experiences. You may have had spiritual realizations. You may have had none of these. That’s fine, this and other such discussions, will still be interesting and relevant.

One aspect remains though, whatever you put out, at some point, you’ll get, to varying degrees at varying times.

Let’s get a bit more concrete. When you are any of the following on a consistent basis, your reality will illustrate the same in your life.

In other words, if your modus operandi is

  • loving, caring, considerate, thoughtful, respectful, joyful, truthful; you keep your word, your commitments and so on, or
  • gossiping, bad-mouthing, being mean, cruel, cheating, complaining, lying and so on

You’ll attract more of the same. Your internal world will be reflected in your outside world.

It’s not a case of being “perfect”. It’s about being a true human being as we were designed not the flawed one created from an outside environment that has lost its way.

Some call it Karma, others, the Golden Rule or whatever else you’ve heard/read. Again, for our purposes, what it’s called, doesn’t matter.

There’s an old Chinese proverb, “Rather light a candle than curse the darkness.”

My personality creates my reality.

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A bit about Me

The PURPOSE of this site is to
UPLIFT, INFORM, INSPIRE

A Bit About Me
I’m a visual artist. I paint acrylic abstracts ofttimes with glitter, fluorescent and metallic paints. There is usually a strong focus on the metaphysical. I express my personal interpretations of consciousness and emphasise the beauty and wonder of my experiences in the spiritual and earthly space. My painting aim is to have an overall effect that is vibrant, forthright, and inspirational for the viewer. It oscillates between bold impact and sensual gentleness.

I don’t allow myself to be imprisoned by the traditionally accepted. Like YOU, I’m an original, and experiment with and explore innovative colour combinations while retaining the integrity of each colour.  For me, the role of colour is to create atmospheric connections between the visible and invisible worlds. In addition, I use abstract interpretations to represent the natural world which cannot be contained as it is always changing in subtle nuances.

The Past
I was a featured artist in a gallery at Mt Tambourine, Queensland, Australia. Although my careers have been in the academic education and mentoring genres, I’ve always loved self-expression whether in the creative arts, dancing/movement, or music.

I’m self-taught as I don’t follow instruction well. I began painting in earnest in 2003. My works range from small to extra-large, whatever size, colours and style takes my fancy at the time of painting.

When I get the urge to paint, I go down to my Atelier, select colours that I’m led to, and away I go. Rarely do I start with a project in mind, I let what’s inside flow out; I don’t stand in its way. We all have an internal inspiration radar if we would only listen to it. It took me months to understand this. I would get frustrated until I relinquished control and let “spirit” take over. Powerful and exciting stuff.

The Present
My goal has always been to enable everyone to feel comfortable to express themselves in whatever creative endeavour sits at their core. With this in mind, I currently assist with encouragement lessons of inspiration with those who request it.

The Future
My work will be available in physical and digital forms for download. (See the Menu Bar for options on how to acquire which form appeals to you when available)

Music

The AIM of this site is to
UPLIFT, INFORM, INSPIRE

Music

I didn’t know that music in its generality existed until I was about 10 years old. The people we boarded with had a pianola, which if you used the pedal, produced melodies from a reel of paper in a little cabinet above the keys that had indentations which produced the melody. The keys would go up and down in keeping with the melody, you just sat and watched/listened. The melodies were usually sing-alongs and everyone just sang to the melody. No skill was required

The other migrants had various instruments which were part of their culture but, I didn’t link that with “Music”. They were mostly used when the variety of nationalities joined up in public parks and danced and barbecued.

A few houses up from where we boarded lived an elderly lady (Mrs Cran) and her adult son (Arthur). He had a health condition and all day he sat in a chair and listened to the gramophone player and listened to records.

Everytime, I went there, I heard these sublime melodies. I asked his mother what it was, she told me, Classical Music. I had never heard of that before. He could only speak for short periods before he gasped for breath and collapsed with exhaustion. I was introduced to Mozart, Beethoven, Bach,  Handel, Tchaikovsky, Rachmaninov, to name a few.

I used to go there as often as my parents allowed after school, and on weekends. One day I went, and I saw Mrs Cran crying. She told me Arthur had died. He’d had a stroke. Apparently, he had extremely high blood pressure and, in those days, the doctors didn’t know what to do about it.

I had never experienced someone dying that I cared for. I couldn’t believe, I would never see him again, nor listen to music with him, or taste Mrs Cran’s cakes. She always baked a fresh cake for me.

Not long after, we left the area as my parents had bought a house .

Started later in Life

You and Me

All of us have an internal desire to positively express ourselves, it’s evident in our speech, our actions and in the life we create.

As you create your life, you are a creator, therefore, you are creative. This site has you in mind.
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All you need is DESIRE, DESIRE, DESIRE and INTENTION.

and, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, critisise your workCRITIQUE IT.

Critiquing means you are prepared to improve it, not trash it.
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Oh, I can hear many of you saying: “I can’t paint to save myself” or “I’m hopeless at painting”, or something to that effect.

Let me tell you that, prior to 2002, I would have said the same.  You will say, “That’s about 20 years ago.” Yes, but let me set the stage about my age. If I were wine, I would be priceless. 20 years ago I was already  in the “very mature” category”.  My actual age is immaterial otherwise, I would tell you; it has nothing to do with being a painter or a happy human being.

In 2002, I was going through a very dark period, in spiritual terms it’s called, “The dark night of the soul”, more like “dark years of the soul” but noone, except possibly a family member, was aware of that.

Out of nowhere, during this period,  I had the desire to paint. Since I was about 10 and I was told by a family member, a drawing of a horse’s head I had done and was proud of, was TERRIBLE, I had never touched drawning, painting or anything of the type for 40 years. It never entered my head.

In 2002, I suddenly had this incredible desire to paint. Where did that come from? Well, some would say, “divine intervention” or, INTUITION.

The desire was so strong that I went to Bunnings, a massive hardware chain and asked the man if he could build me a simple easel. It was in the days when such add-on services still existed. He did, on the spot, there and then.  It wasn’t collapsable but, I had a station wagon. You don’t see these cars around anymore.

I drove home, placed my easel in the carport. I had bought cheap paintsbeforehand. I had inherited brushes from my mother’s deceased partner who was a professional in oils and, with many rags as support, I was ready to create.  I used abstract painting paper, about 35 cm x 15 cm. I still had no idea what I would do.

All I knew was, open a paint tube, squeeze some on paper, play around …………and about 3 hours later……..I had a completed painting. I stood back and exclaimed, “Holy Moly, I did that?” Needless to say, I did abstracts, I could just let loose with colours and whatever took my fancy. To my surprise, I sold a few as well.

I was also asked to be the guest artist for a gallery at Mt Tamborine.

This lasted about 5 years.  My professional career took a different direction and I travelled within Australia and then the US on business and so, painting had a break till 2018.

3 of my framed earlier works:

  1. Corals, using rice paper beneath
  2. Crab in Cave
  3. Ferocious Fish

                 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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